The truth is we all have moments in life where the expectations doesn't meet the reality,it doesn't fit with what actually happens.Sometimes what actually happens is biggest disappoint or the biggest heartbreak and it kills us like at that moment it sucks.
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And here's a thing don't let anyone tell you that it doesn't suck. Don't let anyone tell you to go live that moment and it doesn't hurt because it does. People will tell you it doesn't hurt, they say you'll be fine as it's a part of life and it will heal with time. They'll tell you different things that are designed to make you feel better but ultimately your brain is smart and it knows that you're feeling pain right now.
Now the pain is there for a reason but here's what we have to realize, Pain itself is not an evil. Feeling pain when things don't go your way in your love life or family or work ,that pain is okie to feel, that means you are human and if you don't feel any pain that's a bad sign because when you are not feeling pain that means you have numbed yourself .
People who numb them-self are dead inside. They don't feel any pain but they don't feel the pleasure either. So, if you feel pain, if you have some heartache and you're hurt don't worry pain is okie to have.
Here's what the pain means , it means you're still romantic, you're still an optimist, you still have the faith that you're life can deliver something extraordinary so that's the great sign.
That means you are not among the negative people who say this is never gonna happen to me, I don't believe in life anymore, I don't believe in love, I don't believe it can happen those are the worst kind.
The fact that if you are hurt that means you are Optimist and I LOVE IT !!!
